only the jodi

A search for simplicity, sobriety, compassion, & the right man. Or at least not another wrong man.
September 3rd, 2009

home cooking

jodi sh doff : onlythejodi : home cooking : farm stand

Almost twenty years ago I met a traveler named Elijah, barefoot & barechested, wearing just cut off shorts even though it was late fall already. He’d walked his way across the country and advised me to eat what the earth offered wherever I was living at any moment. He said it was the trick to his health & vigor. Citrus grows where it’s hot & it’ll cool you off,  root vegetables in colder climates, stick to your ribs and digest slowly to keep you warm.

He might’ve been a crazy man. It’s no secret I have a crazy-man magnet embedded deep inside me. But he had a point about the food. He was ahead of his time, or more accurately, he was passing on what once passed as common sense. Read the rest of this entry »

August 15th, 2009

donuts : the great equalizer

Someday’s I’m a pancake, but as long as I flip before I burn, it’s all good.

I was driving in to the city this morning, on my way to do all kinds of good & spiritual things and getting all kinds of cranky because of road construction on the BQE, also known as New York’s perpetual construction zone. Sooner or later the construction has to wind up at your exit, today was my day, and at certain points, all three lanes merged into one.

And then that one single lane, stopped.

A wiry little construction worker, in the requisite neon orange vest and dark roadwork tan waved a SLOW sign, then flipped it to STOP. Traffic stopped, backed up, and we waited — until the man carrying two dozen Dunkin’ Donuts crossed the road — Read the rest of this entry »

March 8th, 2009

roast chicken

I am roasting a chicken. I’m not hungry – and I don’t plan on having dinner at home for a few days, but I am roasting this chicken none the less.

I cried all morning. Not big heaving, hysterical sobs, but that eye leaking thing I can’t seem to avoid lately, and today was particularly damp. I’ve been a little weepy as of late. I hate being a weepy woman. I hate the word, weepy, so I’m calling it a therapy breakthrough. There are chinks in my armor and apparently that’s the whole point. I’m a Brick House with walls 6 feet thick. They’re wholly invisible and invincible, surrounded on all side by a moat of alligators, nightmares, mechanisms of defense and deflection and a few gadgets so secret that I’d have to kill you if I told you about them.   Read the rest of this entry »