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Middle Aged Lazy: Naked

There was a time when I looked better naked than I did clothed. I was…

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Object Impermanence

Object Permanence is the why in why Peek-A-Boo is such a blast, why babies are surprised AF every time you appear again. The other end of the spectrum I call Object Impermanence in adults with dementia. That rock solid knowledge that when something or someone is out of sight or sound, that thing or person is simply…gone for good and for ever.

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Makin’ Food My Bitch

I’ve been a vegetarian, a vegan, a pescatarian, and a locavore. For years I was off beef, but ate poultry. But, the more I knew the less I would eat, until my next “revelation.”

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Praying for the Enemy

I spent a good part of dinner talking about a person who irritated me, who…

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Stand Up.

Every day I see the rights and lives and safety of women and people of color disregarded and crushed by white men in uniforms and white men of influence and white men with academic *futures*

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#911Memory

Fifteen years ago I was on the phone when he said, “Hold on, I think the boiler just exploded,” and put the phone down. After a few moments, “I gotta go. There’s body parts and plane parts all over. I gotta go.” He worked at the Marriott Hotel opposite the World Trade Center and it was early and the story hadn’t hit the news yet.

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A Lesson in Loss: On the Death of a Friend

A friend of mine died this week. The older I get, the more often I’m…

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Trigger Warning

It’s the stuff you don’t see coming you gotta look out for.

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That Girl

Because sometimes the mirror has more than two faces, and none of them are mine.

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Knees (and my vagina)

My vagina can crack the walnuts in my knees.

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I Am Bread

Because you are 96% water, and I am 96% bread.

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New Fat / Old Age

Because I have fat in places I used to have angles.

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Crossing Lines

Because without you there is no me. More to the point, without you, there is too much of me.

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Me, Nick Flynn, and Vicodin.

  Me, on Vicodin (inspired by Nick Flynn) I hate Vicodin. Ten years ago, at…

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mama loves the broken things

When I was a girl we lived across from a parking lot. On the other…

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the bridal bouqet

It was a lovely wedding in a neighborhood church that welcomes all possibilities of love….

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feeding the beast within

All my life –seriously, all my life, and that is considerable at this point, all…

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selective memories

I have a bum leg. Actually, it’s a bum foot. A motorcycle accident in  ’79…

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thirty years later…

I had to take a little time off from the “other” blog, from writing in…

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we can drive all night, she said

I’m driving and the music is blasting. Frequently. There are certain bands, certain music that…

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service center

Service will change your life. Maybe not, but it changes mine. Every time. This week…

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mazed and confused

I’m chasing my dreams full speed until I run smack into a solid wall. I…

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old goats & open hearts

Green Chimney’s is a place for learning & healing for kids and animals. That’s why…

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be kind to each other

My friend Brian died Monday. I met Brian though my friend Lyle. Lyle died 6…