Tag: healing
Middle Aged Lazy: Naked
There was a time when I looked better naked than I did clothed. I was…
Object Impermanence
Object Permanence is the why in why Peek-A-Boo is such a blast, why babies are surprised AF every time you appear again. The other end of the spectrum I call Object Impermanence in adults with dementia. That rock solid knowledge that when something or someone is out of sight or sound, that thing or person is simply…gone for good and for ever.
Makin’ Food My Bitch
I’ve been a vegetarian, a vegan, a pescatarian, and a locavore. For years I was off beef, but ate poultry. But, the more I knew the less I would eat, until my next “revelation.”
Praying for the Enemy
I spent a good part of dinner talking about a person who irritated me, who…
#911Memory
Fifteen years ago I was on the phone when he said, “Hold on, I think the boiler just exploded,” and put the phone down. After a few moments, “I gotta go. There’s body parts and plane parts all over. I gotta go.” He worked at the Marriott Hotel opposite the World Trade Center and it was early and the story hadn’t hit the news yet.
A Lesson in Loss: On the Death of a Friend
A friend of mine died this week. The older I get, the more often I’m…
Crossing Lines
Because without you there is no me. More to the point, without you, there is too much of me.
Me, Nick Flynn, and Vicodin.
Me, on Vicodin (inspired by Nick Flynn) I hate Vicodin. Ten years ago, at…
mama loves the broken things
When I was a girl we lived across from a parking lot. On the other…
the bridal bouqet
It was a lovely wedding in a neighborhood church that welcomes all possibilities of love….
feeding the beast within
All my life –seriously, all my life, and that is considerable at this point, all…
selective memories
I have a bum leg. Actually, it’s a bum foot. A motorcycle accident in ’79…
thirty years later…
I had to take a little time off from the “other” blog, from writing in…
we can drive all night, she said
I’m driving and the music is blasting. Frequently. There are certain bands, certain music that…
service center
Service will change your life. Maybe not, but it changes mine. Every time. This week…
mazed and confused
I’m chasing my dreams full speed until I run smack into a solid wall. I…
old goats & open hearts
Green Chimney’s is a place for learning & healing for kids and animals. That’s why…
be kind to each other
My friend Brian died Monday. I met Brian though my friend Lyle. Lyle died 6…